Hello Family,Yesterday was a big spa day for us.  Our package at Indus Valley Ayurvedic Spa included massage, a facial, pedicure and manicure. So, we had to squeeze site seeing in between our spa. The facial was by far the best I have ever had, it would have been $200 in the US.We had our driver take us to the Majarah’s palace, which they call the Taj Mahal of South.  The palace is very beautiful and the grounds are very nice.  There is an indoor portion that we just could not get to.  We kept going in the wrong way (entrance was not well marked).  Then we missed the shoe drop off, so we had to go back and check our shoes.  We almost got in, when they told us we needed to go check our cameras, which was pretty far back to the entrance.  We gave up and decided to go the outdoor market.  On the way to the market a guy walked over and said ‘The Market is closed for lunch.  I am heading home for lunch, but I will take you to where they make the incense and the oils’.  Amanda says ‘Oh, okay let’s do that.’. I whisper to Amanda ‘the markets not closed, this guy wants us to go to the oil shop’……this goes on. I can’t convince Amanda, so we head down back allies to the incense shop.  The entire time I am thinking ‘we are going to be sold into slavery’.  We did see incense being made which was kind of cool, and we smelled some lovely oils.  The oil guy made us tea, which I did not drink incase it was poisoned :). We did get out of there without a problem.  On the way back to the car the same guy that led us astray, comes up in a rickhaw and says get in, it’s free…..we said no thank you.  What does George Bush say ‘fool me once, fool me twice….you can’t fool a fool again ;)Back to Indus Valley for more spaing and then off to the Brindavan Gardens for the dancing fountains.  The Brindavan Gardens are a bit like the Elitches Gardens without the rides.  Amanda and I were the only non-Indians there.  There is a big lagoon that can be crossed by bridge or boat. We walked across the bridge.  The gardens were nice, but the main attraction is the dancing fountains, the sow start at dusk.  We got there just as it started up.  It was fun.  The fountains are lit up by colorful lights and choreographed to Indian music, like at the Belogio  in Vegas.  We stayed for just a little bit, because we needed to get back for dinner.  unfortunately our car was parked in by other cars and we couldn’t leave. The driver made us wait in the car, because we were attracting too much attention.day 12We had to leave at 6:00 am to drive to the Bangalore airport. amanda had to go wake up the driver from his car in the parking lot. four hours to Bangalore, 2 1/2 hour flight to dehli, met up with Scott and to our B & B.  The B & B is tolerable. They have beer in the fridge which is good.  Walked to dinner, had meat entrees after many vegetarian meals.Day 13Met with Tannnie at the original B & B we were supposed to stay at, because she is helping with our travel plans to Agra for the Taj Mahal.  I almost cried when I saw how nice the place we were supposed to stay in was.  She said she had availability for our last night, so we are moving over there for our last night.  We saw some really amazing sites today.  we saw a minuet (really tall ornate building) and a very large tomb/mausoleum.  160 members of the royal family buried there. we also went to Old Dehli, that was quite an experience.  Another famous Delhi historical site called the Red Fort was there.Tomorrow The Taj.  4 hour car ride there and 4 back.


Hello Family,Amanda and I had a car take us to Mysore today.  It is about 2 1/2 hours from Bangalore.  We played scrabble on the Kindle all the way there. This made the time go really quickly and it kept my mind off of the crazy driving. We stopped at a very old Temple called Srirangapattanom. It was very beautiful.   We had a guide hire himself for us, which was okay.  He did seem to know a lot and told us when we could take pictures and when we couldn’t. We didn’t pay him too much.  The street vendors were really obnoxious, they were like flies. We are staying at Indus Valley Ayurvedic spa.  It is really nice. So quiet and serene.  We both met with the Ayurvedic Doctor and we both had treatments. I had Abhyanga, which is a hot oil massage. I was attended by three woman.  They all start by singing a prayer. Then the poured oil all over me, from head to toe and two woman massaged me simultaneously.  It was good.  Weird, but good.   They then stuck me in a steam box, with just my head sticking out. I could only stay in there for a few minutes. I had to wash my hair like 8 times to get all the oil out.Our driver stays with us for the 3 days.  I am not sure where he sleeps, maybe his car.  I tried to send him off for lunch and such, while we were hanging at the spa, but he would not leave the parking lot.  Naren hired him for us and since Scott is not with us, I think Naren told the driver that he could not leave us.  Naren does not like Amanda and I to go out alone, but I have never felt unsafe.  There were quite a few women traveling alone or in pairs that were staying at Casa Piccolo, though several times Amanda and I have been the only non-Indian people at tourist sites.  At the temple there was a bunch of kids on a school field trip, probably about 6 years old.  They were so cute, waving to us and saying hello.  They wanted to take a picture with us, so Amanda got in with them, they loved it.I have a funny story from Naren.  I brought local soaps and chocolate from home as a gift for Naren’s family.  he put the whole bag, which contained both the soaps and the chocolates, in the fridge.  Naren’s brother Karthik went to sample the treats and chose a lovely soap.  Karthik says to Naren, ‘Hey these taste like soap!’. of course they were soap…..Naren felt a little bad, because he felt the soap was wasted, but I convinced him that it was not a waste, because the funny story was more than worth it. We have been laughing for days.that’s it for now.Love you so muchMom


Hello Family,Today Amanda and I started the day with a little shopping. The textiles are so incredibly beautiful I could spend all day in the shops just looking at all the different fabrics and clothes. I need to be done shopping now because my suitcase is over flowing. The city of Bangalore was crazy today, because London played India in the Cricket World Cup here in Bangalore. We went over to Naren’s family’s house to have lunch and watch some of the game. We learned a bit about the game, it is such a different sport. Naren’s brother, sister-in-law and niece live with Naren’s parents. In India it typical for Son’s families to live with parents. Naren’s niece is 15 months old, and is sooooo cute. Earlier tonight was the big reception at the palace. Amanda and I wore dresses called Shalwar Kameez. they are shorter dresses or almost shirts in some cases, with pants underneath. the reception was so over the top grand. The entrance in to the reception was very dramatic, with red carpet and red curtains. There were thousands of flowers every where. There were hundreds of people there, maybe even a thousand. The big surprise of the night was that our friend Vinay, who is also from Bangalore, sent his parents to see us at the reception. He said that they might come, but I just did not think it would happen. It was so touching, since Vinay could not be there with us, that he sent his parents to see us. It made me cry.The bride and groomNaren and Neha, were dressed so amazingly. Neha is really a beautiful girl and they seem very happy. There was a receiving area inside with lots of chairs and a stage at the front where the wedding family stands. A traditional Indian band was playing music. All the guests line up to give the couple gifts and to have pictures taken with the wedding party. This is a very lengthy process. After your turn in line, you get to head outside to this big open area for dinner. There was so much food, Amanda said she had never seen so much food. Dozens of different dishes. Twenty different desserts. Again all the women in there saris were incredible. We just sat and stared at them. Each sari is so unique, like colorful snowflakes. We said our tearful good buys to Naren’s family, since that is the last day of the festivities. Scott leaves for Chenai early in the morning. Amanda and I will do some site seeing one more day in Bangalore.miss you so much.love,Mom


Hello Family,This morning I was feeling very homesick, so we took it pretty easy today. Naren and his Dad suggested this 12 hour bus tour of Bangalore, and I was definitely not up for that. Instead we hired a auto-rickshaw to take us around to a few places. We went to city market, which is this huge sort of farmers market. An amazing riot of colors and smells. piles of vegetables, spices, some housewares and lots of flowers. Here in India some flowers are used with longer stems, but the majority of the flowers are just the heads and then strung together for garlands used in all kinds of ceromonies, shrines and places of worship. One vendor was taking individual flower petals rolling them and stringing them into lovely garlands. We then went to th Bull temple, which houses Shivas GIANT sacred bull, there are holy men there that bless you. The driver had us leave our shoes in the rickshaw, because you don’t wear shoes in the shrines. There were some other shrines there too, that we ended up walking to as well and then we walked to some gardens, all in our bare feet. We washed them very thoroughly at the Homestay. The driver then took us to some botanical gardens,where we wandered around. We had another nice southern Indian, vegetarian lunch, more shopping (really running out of room now) and back for some relaxation.Tonight we had dinner at Neha’s family’s house. Very different from Naren’s house. Neha is an only child and her Father is a very busy businessman. Neha is so adorabable, she cooked dinner for us and had us hang out in the kitchen with her. She is just learning to cook, since she has been busy withbher schooling up until now. Neha’s friend and her friend’s mother came and helped out. It was a very fun.Off to Mysore, not sure what kind of Internet access we will have.Love you all so much.Mom


Hello Family,Just woke up, slept in until 7:00 this morning. That is quite a feat for me, we all have had problems with waking up very early sometimes at 3:00 and 4:00, especially Scott. We had a late night last night and a long day yesterday, so we were very tired. I promised not to wake up Scott until 10:30 this morning before we head over to Naren’s parents house.Anyway back to day 6 (yesterday). We spent the morning at our lovely hotel, just hanging out. We had a leisurely breakfast. Amanda and I rode the hotel bikes around the hotel grounds. Our room has a little outside seating area that faces a little lagoon and just beyond is a bird nesting area, so we watched a lot of the local birds right from our room. We made new accommodations for when we are in Delhi, I’ll forward that info.Our driver picked us up at 12:00, and we had a 2 1/2 hour drive to the airport, then 1 1/2 our flight back to Bangalore, then 2 hour car ride to our homestay. That was the worst 2 hour drive ever. The traffic was horrible. The cars all drive with there windows down, and the pollution is terrible. Even if the cars have air conditioning the drivers don’t want to use it, because it uses more gasoline. We were completely stopped for like 20 minutes and the fumes were so horrible, we were worried about our health. We kept asking the driver if there was a/c, but he spoke no English. Finally Scott, just started fiddling with the controls and we all rolled up our windows and the driver went along with us. We are staying again at the Casa Picollo. We took 20 minutes to freshen up and then the driver took us to the nicest hotel in Bangalore, the Taj West, for a pre-reception reception. Naren’s father-in-law is a successful business man and this was a reception for his work colleagues. The reception was in an outside open area surrounded by trees. Really beautiful. It’s also the oldest hotel in Bangalore. Naren’s Father gives us lots of information. He is a teacher of medicine and he loves to teach. He is really a great guy. He speaks 8 languages! One of Mr. S’s drivers took us back to our homestay. We had to laugh, it took our driver 40 minutes to get us to the Taj, and it only took this driver about 7 minutes to get us back. Some of these driver are pretty bad (same amount of traffic).That is it for now. It sounds like you guys are really busy! I miss you!Love, hugs and kisses,Mom


Hello Family,We finished up our boat ride this morning with another yummy breakfast and a beautiful ride to our hotel. The weather was was so nice this morning. We saw a lot of birds this morning on the water, egrets, cormorants and herons. The houseboat dropped us off right at our hotel, the Tag Retreat, which happens to be right on the water. The Taj is the fanciest hotel we booked and it is really nice. I think the nicest hotel I have ever stayed in. The rooms are basically little cottages that opens up to this little lagoon. We walked over to the bird sanctuary and did a nice 3 mile walk. At the start they have pictures of the different birds, fish, plants and insects, so we learned the names of the things we might see. We didn’t see too many birds for the first 90 percent of the walk, but we saw a lot of butterflies, dragon flies, some fish and flora. Then we came upon a ranger and he showed us where to go. He pointed out almond trees and rubber trees and then he took us to this tower. From the tower we saw lots and lots of birds. Several blue herons, lots of egrets, cormorants and we even saw some hanging fox bats in distant trees. We then went back and hung out at our comfortable hotel, went for a swim. Unfortunately we found out our room that was booked in Delhi fell through. Apparently, another Angela also booked a room at our bed and breakfast for around the same time and the owner became very confused and double booked the room. We got the short end of the stick. We have now decided to go straight to Agra (where the Taj Mahal is) from the airport and stay in Agra for 2 days and then back up to Delhi for one night before flying home.back to Bangalore tomorrow. are the kids skiing today?Missing you guys!

Hello Family,Our driver came and picked us up from Noah Ark this morning to take us to Kumorakon to catch our houseboat. We were sad to say good by to our hosts Diana and Jerry.  They treated us so well. We had another amazing breakfast. We have yet to have a bad meal (the worst was probably our $100 breakfast at Heathrow airport).  I think everyday we say ‘this is they best meal yet’.  The surprising thing is, my stomach feels great, better even than when I left home. I think we have a lot Indian food in our future kids :) Anyway, it was about a two hour drive to Kumorakon. The countryside was beautiful. We also drove close to the sea quite a bit (Arabian Sea).  At Fort Kochi, we had seen the ancient Chinese fishing nets that are still intact, but it wasn’t that inspiring because of the distraction of all the trash, but as we drove out of the city there were a lot more and they were very beautiful.  I was nervous about our houseboat ride.  I had doubts about what the boat would be like, so I was nervous as we arrived in Kumorakon.  When we finally got on our boat it was way better than anything I had imagined.  The boat is so charming. We felt like we were in a Katherine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy movie. It has a living room and dining area and then 2 bedrooms with king size beds.  They welcomed us with a coconut with a straw in it.  Coconut water directly from a coconut is so much better than coconut water out of a can.  The houseboat cruises on what is called the Backwaters. The Backwater are fresh water, but are very close to the sea. They are sort of like the channels in Venice, but much bigger. Most of the day we spent perched on the front of the boat on cushions just behind our captain VJ as he steered us around the Backwaters all day.  We were surrounded by banana, coconut, cashew, mango and other trees.  Rice fields lay beyond the trees.  We passed small villages where the people who worked in the rice fields live .  We saw woman washing there clothes and pots and pans in the river.  We saw children and men bathing in the river, but with some clothes on. We saw children just out of school in the uniforms  waiting for there ‘bus’ boat. This ride is definitely a highlight of the trip so far. Our captain VJ traded songs with Amanda.  VJ has a very nice voice and a great sense of humor.  Our cook Jacob, prepared the most delicious lunch.  Again, way beyond my expectations.  Ken, I am now feeling a little guilty that you are not here with me, because you would be in heaven here on the boat with the most amazing Indian food.  For dinner we had fresh caught giant prawns, that we picked out at a stand along the river, where we also had a little ice-cream treat.  I had my usual drumstick cone, tasted just like back home off the ice-cream truck :).That’s it for now.  Next stop the Taj Retreat and Bird Sanctuary.


Hi Family,I am starting to loose track of my days already. Our homestay (bed & breakfast) is really great. The couple that run it, Diana and Jerry, are such sweet people. Very helpful. We had such a delicious breakfast. Started with a traditional American omelet and toast and then had the traditional Indian breakfast of dosa, samba and coconut chutney. The coffee is so good here. We then flagged down an auto rickshaw driver, who proceeded to drive us around for the next 9 hours, which cost us 900 rupees or $10. So cheap, but I think he earned a commission from each shop he took us to. We went to a great spice shop and then a rug/textiles/collectables/jewelry shop, sort of like some of the shops in Santa Fe. It is a lot like shopping in Mexico, high pressure haggling. We went to the Dutch palace, which was built in the 1600s by the Portuguese, but then the area was taken over by the Dutch, so renamed. We had a fantastic seafood lunch, a whole fish cooked in a banana leave and giant prawns. This evening we went to this traditional Kerala performance art show. The costumes were really cool, but the actual performance was so boring. We couldn’t get out of there fast enough.Kerala is a very Christian area. There’s a catholic school and a lot of Indians with Christian names.Tomorrow we are off on our house boat adventure, probably no wi-fi access on the boat, so may be a couple of days before I can send an email.


Hello Family,We are now in Kerala. We took a short flight, 1 1/4 hour. Definitely the way to go. We are staying in a lovely homestay (B & B) in Fort Kochi, which is right on the Arabian sea. It is much hotter here than in Bangalore. There are so many things that I love about India, but the thing I dislike the most, is that there is trash everywhere. In Bangalore I was not so surprised about the piles of trash in the street, but in Fort Kochi we walked down to the beach and the beaches were sooooo littered. They have put trash cans around on the beach, but they are almost empty. It seems that it has become a habit of the Indian people to just throw their litter everywhere. It is so sad. While we were walking around we could tell a big storm was coming in. We went in a little shop for a few minutes when the skies opened up and just dumped. We waved down an auto rickshaw, who pulled up right to the curb, so we could jump in without getting too wet. We told him to takes us to a good and save place where we could get a beer. He took us to a great place right on the ocean to weather out the storm. He waited for us while the storm subsided and we finished our beers and then took us back to our Homestay. He was a very funny and nice guy. We asked him how much and he smiled and said 100,000 ruppees. We laughed and gave him 100 (which is about 50 extra). He was also very smart and dropped us at a really nice shop next to the home stay, that shop should give our driver a commission (actually they probably did, it is India).One funny thing about Indian men is that they walk around holding hands with each other or with arms around each other. You never see Indian men and women doing this or two women, but 2 men all the time…..weird.That’s it for now.love and kisses,Mom

Hi family,We are in India.  Our flights were really good, but so long. Naren and his brother Karthik were at the airport when we got there. We were so happy to see them, I thought they were sending a car, so we were very pleased to see a familiar face.  We took a taxi to our B &B (Homestay).  The driving is so crazy, and Naren says no one wears seat belts here.  We are off to do some shopping and then a wedding party tonight. Can’t believe I am actually here and going to Naren’s wedding. I will email more later.  Just returned from a few hours shopping and lunch. Aunt Amanda and I went to this really beautiful dress shop and bought beautiful saris for the wedding tomorrow.  We also each bought a dress for the reception.  I can’t wait to wear them, they are so amazing.  We then went to a traditional Indian restaurant that our driver recommended.  so, yummy, best Indian food I have had so far in my life.  We are back at our homestay and resting up for tonight’s ceremony ‘worship of the groom’.We just returned from ‘the groom worship ceremony’. We got to meet all of Naren’s family and his fiancé Neha.  The ceremony was very interesting, took lots of pictures.  We got to eat off of a banana leaf, which is good luck. Naren’s family was so welcoming to us.  You wouldn’t believe all the beautiful saris and other traditional Indian clothing.  The colors are so beautiful and the jewelry is amazing.  Aunt Amanda and I can’t wait to wear our saris the wedding tomorrow.Driving is so different here.  Naren told us that people don’t wear seat belts here, but he said it was okay if we did.  On the road there are cars, buses, motorbikes and auto Rickshws all driving really fast and really close together.  The motorcycles zoom by so close to the cars. It is very common to see women wearing saris riding side saddle on the back of motorcycles and scooters.  I was very shocked to see one woman holding a little baby on the back of a motorcycle, then I saw a family of 4 on a motorcycle……then I saw a family of 5 on a motorcycle!  I got a picture of that one.  Cars constantly are honking their horns. At first I thought they were honking ‘at’ each other, to tell each other to get out of the way, like we do in the US, but then I realized they use honking more as a communication skill.  They use the horn to say things like ‘I’m right here on your left’.  That is part of the reason the can drive so close to each other.  Trucks actually have signs painted on the back that say ‘Sound Horn!’. Are you getting these emails?Best Regards,Mom

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